I would like to ask that another female Scorpio to share with me if what I am doing (staying committed no matter what) is going to prove beneficial in our relationship! I’m hurting deeply over these test but I cannot give up on her….and I won’t!

As a scorpio I’ll admit that once you cross us we do not easily transcend to moving on and upward-we will remind you of what you’ve done before you get a chance to cross someone else. I don’t deal with scorpios personally becuz I think they are high maintenance and I have other focuses in my life which are a much more worthy of pursuit…

However, Scorpios on the contrary seriously are not the sociopaths people advertise them to be. In contrast, they are probably the only sign equipped to slay the sociopaths of the zodiac. Scorpios have a nose for sniffing out the darkside in people and making them face it and that hurts which is why people hate dealing with Scoprios. Scorpios may inflict punishment for your dark capacities you revel in at times, but it’s not sadistic torture for directionless fun (see geminis and libras for that).

If you’ve never crossed a scorpio then you should have absolutely nothing to worry about. However, if you are use to crossing other signs and getting away with it, then the buck stops at the 8th house of the zodiac. Don’t expect someone to give you undying atomic loyalty for you to benefit from when everyone else leaves you down in the dumps if your going to cross them behind something meaningless. Know what your doing, otherwise…just move on you got hurt just like everyone does on a daily basis for whatever reason and you lost, get over it….tis all

I can feel the intensity and see the whirling emotions in the eyes of the Scorpio man I want to be with. I can feel he somehow knows what my feelings are inside and me being me, I cannot do what he can do and hide them very well. Mine well up and overflow no matter how hard I try to hold them back. I think this vulnerability in me makes him feel safer.

I know what a gift and a curse it is to feel so much. I battled with it as a child myself, being a weird mix of happy go lucky one minute in the company of people I trusted, then intensely shy and easily hurt the next. Like a vortex drawing in everything, be it good or bad. Its very hard and it takes years to know how to deal with this. Therefore Scorpio male behavior although hurtful is logical for him and I can see where he is coming from. No other type of man can delve into the emotional depths and I have huge respect for this. It is a beautiful thing.

I have been tested and I was broken hearted, but my love made me want to preserve the friendship at least. I admitted to him I was jealous and felt terrible and since then he has opened up to me more. I think he was trying to see how much I cared and it was obvious I did. I knew in my heart when all others were righting him off as only a player and sex magnet that there was more to him and he wanted real love. In fact, his desire to bed females galore to me was almost like a sign that what he was tasting was not at all fulfilling and deep enough. Moments of pleasure that disappeared in seconds with women who were just easy to obtain and not even that attractive (some of them). A lonely way to be I think. I could feel it when we were sexual together. Sex cannot be that amazing if there are no feelings at all, no way on earth and I was right.

You are so right about the testing and reasons behind it. Totally 100% spot on. Its almost like you have to be without too much of an ego, in order to stick with a Scorpio. Remember they feel so deeply they need to be sure you won’t hurt them. If you love them truly, you will know in your heart that this is what they are doing. Initially it was like being stabbed in the chest, but I still loved him and people said to me that he wanted to see my reaction. That meant it was important the way I reacted, so he must be looking for something. If he wasn’t interested he wouldn’t bother, was the way I looked it and things have moved on and I am amazed and happy but so afraid he will hurt me as much as he is afraid I will hurt him.

I will keep loving him and hopefully the wall will continue to gradually come down. Thankfully I have a lot of patients and a busy life of my own and know it is worth waiting for.

I’m more selective with my heart now that I’m older. But even then, I was faithful to my partner. When I’m in a steady relationship, my focus is on the one I love.

Conclusion from a Healthy Partner – I would add – If you’re feeling unreasonably tested and the relationship is unbalanced, put your partner in check! I’m sure if you’re involved with a Scorpio who truly loves you, they’ll respect your feelings enough to check themselves. Most Scorpios are highly self aware, and if we love you, we’ll make the change.

An eagle/phoenix is hard to find. Too many people say they are, but they ain’t.

There, I said it.

I’ve known enough of them (As a Plutonian) to know that most are terrible, disgusting, evil little creatures.

Again, I don’t think a Scorpio would cheat if they really truly loved someone.

This sounds more like an unevolved one.

You can find me on sasstrology.net – the forum – you can also tell your story, there; a lot of people can help you (especially scorpio males), just set up an account and start a thread or look me up and PM me, if you don’t want to go “public”.