Well he REALLY got over it. He refused to speak to me and 4 weeks later was in a relationship with a woman that look suspiciously like me. I’ve only heard from him once since this all happened and it was back in the middle of may. He sent me an email that very simply said, “sometimes…i miss our talks.”

That’s thing with scorpios, they appear much tougher than they are. And they have a natural sting to their being which can make them worthy adversaries. But you could have said one simple sentence that utterly destroyed them and yet theyd never let you know. Or at least, they won’t let you know until they’ve gotten over the devastation of it. This was a trait i never realized until the later days of our relationship. A handful of times he’d refer back to something that had happened months ago and tell me just how much it upset him. And yet i would be baffled because i had no idea, and often didnt mean any harm at the time.

So if your man is acting weird, he probably is wounded. If you should call or not, i don’t know. They want to know you care but they also want to be left alone. So it’s a fine line.

This may sound cheesy, but there’s one big thing that i learned with my scorpio. and it was a very good thing for me to learn as air sign in aquarius. but i learned to have to rely more on my gut emotion and less on my head. If i listened to my heart, i did the right things. And he came closer to me. If i let my thoughts run away, or let logic and criticism get going, i would make a mess of things.

So i say go with it when you feel it. And then you’ll do the right thing.

An eagle/phoenix is hard to find. Too many people say they are, but they ain’t.

There, I said it.

I’ve known enough of them (As a Plutonian) to know that most are terrible, disgusting, evil little creatures.

I have a lot of guy friends (some who are jerks) who tell me how they will keep girls around for sex or just for their ego or they just don’t want to hurt her even though they’d never date her so they will answer her texts every once in a while. Guys tell me all the time that they hang out with a girl because she’s easy sexually or she’s just always available and always wanting him, so it’s easier.

IMO, many women would rather hang on to some guy who doesn’t care about them, doesn’t respect them, etc. than admit to themselves that he just doesn’t like them. And that is just sad (not pathetic, just sad). And many women stay with jerks because they feel like it’s all they deserve subconsciously. Or the don’t want to rock the boat (i.e. it’s better to have a crappy relationship or like a jerk than to not have anything going on in that department).

I think that if a man is cheating on you, disrespecting you, only meeting you for sex, abuses you, lies constantly, never contacts you first, etc. It’s pretty damn obvious he doesn’t like you in MOST circumstances. The flowers, kissing in public bs, going down on you, isn’t what I’m talking about here. I’m talking about his character and the foundation of the relationship. I’m not saying the problems are always his, but! I do think that women can weed out a lot of jerks by expecting to be treated with respect, given honesty and faithfulness. If those aren’t there, IMO, there is NO relationship or love.

No man that loves you is going to stand you up for no reason, cheat on you (that is a choice, never a “mistake” – And I’ve cheated), lie to you constantly, not establish a relationships and only have sex with you, never show you respect, etc. That is what I’m talking about.