Do you think that unevolved scorpios can change? Is there a way or they can stay in their whole life like that.? I say so because I really fell in love with one 35 year old who I guess belongs to to those unevolved ones. I didn’t have sex with him because I knew that I would be very deeply hurt but I always think of him and I believe that we could have a better experience together than a one night stand. I have learned so much from him by just thinking of him. He has many personal planets to scorpio and his power in enormous to me.
Do you believe that he could ever change?

He may have already come to his conclusion, that is to say he decided that something wasn’t to his liking about you[ as lovely as you might be]kept those thoughts to himself and played the fairweather boyfriend until someone he felt might fill his void came along, than made excuses to not be with you so as to not reveal a decision he really made quite some time ago. Yes it sounds complicated, but understand we are premeditative and careful people.

I am involved with a scorp guy for almost two years now, and I treaded very carefully, fearing the sting all the time, which was totally baseless. All I have to do is be Genuine and True to him and LOYAL.

as for the rules, … let me go through them. I believe I have a very evolved scorpio, though he is born on 19th degree of scorpio, which is considered the Cursed degree of a Cursed Sign, called cerberus; a multiheaded snake, the sign of total destruction to whatever it touches.

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1. Leaving Insecurities at home:: NO WAY, here is a man who reaches my soul, makes me open up like no one else. I have NEVER been this open with anyone and never has anyone stood beside the imperfect me, the way he does… IT TAKES a LOT of self-confidence to WORD your INSECURITIES, much more than hiding them. YOU GOTTA TRUST A SCORP MALE to show ALL, thats the ultimate they want with their partners, only then they open up themselves.

2. DOUBLE STANDARD
hardly, he does not have double standards, whenever he says something contradictory, I do point-out humorously and it works.

3. READING b/w LINES
I am a fire sign, I can hardly read the Line, LOL.. so I tell my guy **see honey, I am not good at this, so dont make me do guessing for I will guess wrong**, amazingly, it does work many times,, he tries to state things as it is,,, and when he does not state clearly, I dont care and his gets annoyed, goes silent,, and then comes back to normal .. giggle .. period. it works for us.

4. Sexually OPen
YES… be ready to let go of consciousness and taboos.. and just let your instincts take over.

5. NEED HIM
yes and no…
he wants to know that he is most important in my life BUT also he wants a very strong woman who is a survivor.. I am both at different times. Need him but i wont die without him. My happiness is inside me, he is not the sole source of my happiness. I love life and love him and love myself,,, it is not a pick of one, all apply.

6. Moodiness
YES, I agree
Moods caused some hurdles in our journey, and then his silence. and those >> its nothing baby… uff
Now, over time, I dont go down with him in his moods. Give him a few days of off time, normally he does return.. if he takes longer, I go nudge him.
… in the mean time, I do miss him like hell…. his moods make me realize just how much I miss the CONNECTION. I wish he wont do that… but this I accept as part of his *constitution* now.

7. WIN/ LOSE
NOOOOO, NEVER GO INTO A WIN/ LOSE thing with a scorpio or sag.. scorpio will cut his arm but wont accept a forfeit handshake, and sags can go away even if they love you the most.. GAMES do not apply to us.

very early in our relationship we picked that we both are VERY STUBBORN and this stubbornness should not mess our relationship. so we vowed to not let EGO get in the way.. whenever we feel it, we bend down to love, not to eachother.. it is a win-win.. talk to your scorpio, he understands and he does not want any game to spoil his LOVE. trust me.

8. Emotional pressure
hahahaha… I am so simple and sunny, I dont know how to apply any emotional pressure, more air or water thing it is… so I dont do that for i dont know how to.. (angel halo on my head.. hahah). I am though very stubborn and NO ONE can make me do something I dont want to do.. not even my scorpio.

but i pick my battle very carefully,, in almost 2 yr now, it has happened twice with my scorp. I refused to budge and he bucked in ,,, only because I was RIGHT.. and later on he said, he loved it the way I stick to what i believe in.

9. BE REAL
yes, yes, yes, yes
(aint it a contradiction to all the rules you said earlier.. tongue out)
its the ONLY thing you gotta do, provided a scorpio LOVES YOU. thats all that is required.

10. I disagree totally…. PLEASE… love should be easy

LOVE should not be PAINFUL
love is Never abusive
Love does not intentionally play games
love does not ask you to be who you are not

Love provides, protects, lets you shine and make you secure… if it is not doing this to you, scorpio or not, leave that guy. right now.

So when you ‘experience’ sex with us (yours truly), the act is not only a savage… but hauntingly gentle time… the experience in your orgasm includes emotions, desires and drives… so powerful within our nature (especially so with Sun, Mars in Scorpio and/or 8th house energy) that YOU actually TRANSFORM with us through the profound experience.

In other words: sex, love, fears of all kinds, i.e jealousy, obsessions, hate, confusion, immense vulnerability is EXTRACTED from your once innocent reality. Namely the changes from your previous perceptions, your previous EXISTENCE about love, life, intimacy, fears, connection, bonding, joy, excitement, danger, risk, passion, closeness… many psychological revelations that you once never new could ‘be real’ or have existed in your reality.

So transformations mean “Death” in the Scorpionic code. Death is a beautiful thing, because it means you are changing from the inside out, thanks to the experiences “happening” through your mind and body.

Now, I must point out… that many gals get too horny, they don’t think… and hook up with essentially “bad Scorpio males” whom truthfully don’t have a care in the world about the tenderness and innocence of a woman who is “not familiar with her underworld.”

So many a woman become the hunted little bunny. A male Scorpio who can only think below the waist (un-evolved) is a danger unto himself. He has not grow wiser through his underworld. He is usually lost and clever at pulling the wool over a beautiful woman’s eyes.

Everything I say here, is through my life experience. I am not afraid to admit that was once this guy… because my sexual intensity, inner-energy is volcanic. But, through inward catharsis and the seeking of good intent, good morals, truth, openness of my intentions… I have become free.

Darkness will ALWAYS be half-of-me. But through my savage journeying, I now ‘understand’ all the intricacies and blessings associated with those deep and painful experiences. It all comes down to stripping the ego naked. Dissolving the ego and introducing it to the Power and Splendor of the Eternal Soul. My ego is Total. Because I have found my Soul. So I now don’t abuse others for the sake of meaningless conquest. My life has taken on much more meaning, enormous meaning as a result.

Well said there Thecountess

My beef is with the new school of relationship dogma. We’ve swung so far to one side of the scale that in our attempts at equality and happiness, we take out the human factor. None of us are perfect. We will all hurt and be hurt, even if it snot intended. I say, if you’re strong, ride those mmoments out until you can see them for what they really are, not what you perceive them to be – because our perceptions are usually tainted by insecurities, fear, the past, etc. and this can make us our own worst enemies. In fact, i do believe its the root of all evil in the world in any situation.

@Dolores – when you call other women an ass , it only reflects upon you. Don’t spill your regret upon others. You’re the one that spent 22 years in a situation that didn’t serve you well, not us. Don’t push your situation on other people. You are your own person and have your own unique views that maybe other women wouldn’t even have after 22 years. But also do yourself a favor- dont feel battled down, used and abused by the rough times in those 22 years. Fell worthy and strong from what you went through. Feel wise, not jaded. You are a better person, a stronger person, a wiser person. Whatever occured, he did you a favor. And if it was reallllllyy horrible, everything else in the future will seem like cake in comparison. Turn that story around. You didn’t come out on the bottom. You came out on top.

Ladies if you find a man on earth worthy enough to expend your heart, soul, energy and time deciphering all this shit just to make him happy….your an ASS. I was in love with and spent 22 years….thats right 22 fucking years throwing my pearls before a Scorpio swine, and do you know what I got for all my “playing by the rules” and dedicating my life to this addict, low life womanizing peice of shit????? NOTHING BUT HEARTBREAK AND CRUELTY. My advice….RUN….NOW…..DONT WAIT…..JUST GO….and tell him to fuck himself from now one on your way out the door. There are so many beautiful loving, adoring men in this universe, why would any woman in her right mind try to find paradise in Hell. PULEASE.